............I THINK I'll SCREAM!
I don't expect another relationship, and at the moment I am not looking for one, but I really hate the world's lamest excuse for a break-up "You are too good for me!". I understand that relationships change as do people's feelings, and you can't help that, but I would rather be told the truth "I don't love you anymore!" or "There is someone esle!" At least with that you can understand, although probably not make it any easier.
"Your too good for me!" or "I don't make you happy" is just a non-excuse. How can someone be too good to someone? or how can someone know how they make someone else feel!
I will readily admit that when I am in a relationship I put my heart on my sleeve and throw my whole self in, and this has often resulted in me being extremely hurt. But being TOO NICE.......
I blame my Father and Grandfather! They are (or were) real gentlemen. I was brought up to respect women. Just little things like to walk on the outside when on the road, to open doors and to allow them to sit down before me. This has nothing with disrespect (and it may be considered old fashioned) but I don't think I can change now!
I have done enough things during my life that I am not proud of, that are not "nice" or "good", but I would not do those to someone that I am in a relationship with, to someone to whom I have given my heart.
Do women want just a "Bad lad" who will hurt them or give them the run around? I can understand that there is some excitement in that, but if that is what women want I get the feeling I'm going to be alone for a while!
Hello, thank you for your lovely comment on my blog, am glad that you enjoy it.
ReplyDeleteAs to your question, well I know plenty of women who actively hunt "bad boys", and I say the same thing to all of them.
You. Are. An. Idiot.
I have dated bad boys, and I have had bad relationships. The odd lovely moment never made up for all of the painful ones.
Three years ago I met a lovely guy. I married him ten months later. Most girls who claim they want bad boys soon figure out that actually they just want a nice guy who loves them back, and makes them feel like a goddess.
Hang on in there, Boy. From someone who was yelling the same thing as you (from the female perspective!) three years ago, I can promise you that there are good, sane, normal women out there who want a happy relationship, not a romantic drama.